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a perfect no thanx 31/1/2008
I am not sure what the perfect rejection is, however i do
believe one that comes with a short explanation of why the
person who believed you had enough in common to be good 'adult-friends'
is not your type will recieve less Why nots or agressive
responses then ignoring or a auto reply does. just my thoughts
0 Commentaires, 58 Consultations,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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no thanks 27/12/2007
its hard to do , but better for everyone to be polite and say
no thanks rather than nothing at all or being rude
7 Commentaires, 166 Consultations,
15 Votes
,5.27 Score
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Why stand women up? 13/12/2007
Ok I don't get it.All the guys on here bitch and moan
about the lack of women willing to meet but how many of you
ladies have been left hanging at an agreed meeting place/time?I've
run into 2 so far and i know there are others out there that
have done it to some of you.So I have started a new group to
try and help weed out the repeat offenders and let others
know not to waste their time.My time ...
16 Commentaires, 265 Consultations,
25 Votes
,6.01 Score
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are all the men on this site like this. 9/12/2007
i have noticed that alot of the men and some women on this
site will send you nasty emails if you tell them no thanks.
what happened the adult in passion.
7 Commentaires, 220 Consultations,
22 Votes
,6.73 Score
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tough to say no 26/11/2007
I don't think it's in our nature to say no...
2 Commentaires, 32 Consultations,
1 Votes
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I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW ONCE TIME MORE..... 20/11/2007
POOR DEVILS !!!! This is a follow up to my article " I would like..."
This time, and I am referring to the male sex. I would like
to bring up the many times in which I had the opportunity
to witness how far hypocresy was carried by many. The same one that today builds you UP tomorrow will insult
you and offend you.....and why?
GENTLEMEN!! ...
11 Commentaires, 476 Consultations,
17 Votes
,6.10 Score
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no 25/10/2007
say no thanks
1 Commentaires, 30 Consultations,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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The best way to say NO 25/10/2007
I think that there are many ways to say no to someone. The
best of course is being honest and telling them. Standing
someone up is not the way, too many do that, they say one thing
and then when you arrange to meet, they become a no show.
To me that is the cowards way out.
0 Commentaires, 38 Consultations,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Responding 12/10/2007
I have sent out a lot of emails to women asking them if they
would like to chat. Why are women so rude by not returning
the email? I understand maybe I'm not there type, blah,
blah, blah. but an email would be nice acknowledgement
that they aren't fake!
6 Commentaires, 178 Consultations,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Not responding is worse. 2/10/2007
I don't like to hurt someone else's feelings,
but not responding is a worse option only followed by being
mean or rude in response.
When I came here I brought the understanding that I'm
not going to appeal to everyone I'm attracted to - that's
just the way life is. I don't send many e-mails but when
I do, I like to hear back either way and I think most of us do
as well. A simple quick ...
10 Commentaires, 216 Consultations,
14 Votes
,4.26 Score
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Hypocrits or sore losers? 15/9/2007
I consider myself to be semi attractive and pretty damn
nice. So much to my dismay when my hubby and I have said "no
thanks" to some people (and not just on this site)
people have gotten nasty and said some hateful things.
One single male actually went so far as to call me a , another
one said my husband must be controlling me, and another
couple, after us telling them kindly they just weren't ...
5 Commentaires, 175 Consultations,
22 Votes
,6.97 Score
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Feeling bad... 12/9/2007
I've read most of the articles and comments on this
topic, but it hasn't helped me not feel guilty telling
someone no. Most of the time it is a case of "I'm
sorry, I can't drop everything to meet you, but I do
have a life if you had only read my profile" kind of
feeling. I was under the mistaken impression that in order
to be a member you had to at least be able to read, because
most of the ...
2 Commentaires, 57 Consultations,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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I'm done 3/9/2007
So you log onto passion, meet a guy, things go well and you hook
up for sex. You both like the sex and continue meeting more
regular then all of a sudden he just doesn't come around
anymore or answer your call. In a "No strings attached"
relationship is it too much to expect a reason why the relationship
is over or is it perfectly acceptable due to the nature of
the relation to just dissolve ...
10 Commentaires, 225 Consultations,
24 Votes
,5.97 Score
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Are we not adults? 26/8/2007
Sometimes if I see a pic I like or a profile that makes me smile
or makes me hot (usually from out of state), I'll send
an email to show appreciation. Most times I'll get
a note back thanking me which is nice. Now there are the times
I will send an email (from my area) asking if they would be
interested in chatting and I get nothing back. There has
even been times when I am contacted, a few ...
17 Commentaires, 365 Consultations,
14 Votes
,6.66 Score
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Turning rejection into a confidence booster 26/8/2007
I know I've only been here for a few days, but I have already
had to give several rejections in chat, emails, and IM.
So far everyone has been very friendly after being turned
down.
I am a woman looking for other women to join a 3some with my
boyfriend, but I've been getting a lot of responses
from guys. Instead of flat out telling them no, instead
I thank them for their interest, ...
2 Commentaires, 99 Consultations,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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Bandwagon 24/8/2007
Do you automatically jump on the bandwagon on this site
when someone presents an article to put down certain people
in order to drive them out of the advice line, articles or
blogs?
18 Commentaires, 246 Consultations,
51 Votes
,0.92 Score
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How do I say NO means NO???!!!!! 21/8/2007
* * * I sent him Title: Thank you but I am not interested.
Content: Thank you but I am not interested.
* * * He sent me
Title: Re: Thank you but I am not interested.
Content: So sad u're saying that. At least just give
me a chance to please u. Maybe we could have a drinks first.
* * *
(no reply)
* * *He sent me:
Title: u ...
11 Commentaires, 189 Consultations,
9 Votes
,3.85 Score
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Nothing turns a girl off more than Desperados!!! 16/8/2007
I think if we gather all the nasty comments all the
girls have gotten, we can publish a thicker-than-encyclopedia
book!!! And somehow guys don't realise, sending nasty
comments only show how desperate you are, and that is a huge
TURN OFF!!!
I am attaching 2 here: * * * JUST A NOTE OF SINCERE THANKS AND APPRECIATION FOR YR TIME
N EFFORT TO REPLY
TO ME YOU ARE JUST A BRA ...
7 Commentaires, 139 Consultations,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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More on Thank You, I am not interested 11/8/2007
When someone contacts me and their profile does not interest
me, I click the quick response and am done. The problem comes when they return email with nasty comments.
Why does NO THANKS have to become a slap to your sexuality,
sensuality, intelligence, body shape, lifestyle and
more?
Maybe the person receiving the NO THANKS should step back
for a moment and think that this person has ...
11 Commentaires, 191 Consultations,
18 Votes
,4.08 Score
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What is Better 31/7/2007
I often am to blunt in saying no thanks. I am not trying to
be rude, I just come across that way by saying no when I wish
to say no. What is a good way to say no and not be a jerk.
6 Commentaires, 89 Consultations,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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ahahah it's ok. 30/7/2007
after a long exchange of messages i thaught that it was done.SHE
was waiting me...i arrived a bit late.So she said..U are
late ..."no thanks".
5 Commentaires, 92 Consultations,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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No Thanks?? 26/7/2007
I have noticed there are a lot of ppl that write and aren't
actally what we are looking for. We always try to be nice
and respond to everyone in some way or another even if it
is to say 'No Thanks'. But there have been a lot
of ppl that get really pissed about saying 'No Thanks'We
are really nice ppl and try not to hurt ppls feelings at all
but when ppl get pissed all it does is turn us further ...
1 Commentaires, 31 Consultations,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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Just say NO 23/7/2007
But wow, is it hard to do some times, ....tho to be truthful
it is easier on line than face to face.
2 Commentaires, 60 Consultations,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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ever felt bad abut saying no? 28/6/2007
my girlfriend was a virgin and really wanted to lose her
virginity to me, but the night she wanted to i had so much
stuff on my mind so i said i wasnt ready, she looked quite
upset, anything like this happened to anyone else?
0 Commentaires, 42 Consultations,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Why do some people feel the need to lie?? 19/6/2007
If you're not into it, please just say so...if you're
not interested, just say so. If you were, then you changed
your mind, or got a better offer, JUST FREAKING SAY SO!!!
Don't lie through your teeth and say your neighbor
died and you'll be in touch soon, when you're more
in the mood, when its quite obvious from the recent (dated)
testimonials on your profile that you were having fun with
others ...
5 Commentaires, 112 Consultations,
10 Votes
,4.78 Score
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if its what needs to be said 15/6/2007
then say it
0 Commentaires, 30 Consultations,
1 Votes
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No is a complete sentence... 2/6/2007
It is not always intended to be
a hurtful sentence. Oftentimes its just a "You are
not my type, good luck to you".
We have all been there and as long as you are kind with your
"no" that should be enough.
This site is massive develop a "NEXT" attitude
and move on.
I mean really do you really want to waste your time with someone
who is not into ...
5 Commentaires, 74 Consultations,
15 Votes
,6.04 Score
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Your loss emails 30/5/2007
it really annoys me when i am polite enough to say no thanks
and some jerk replies back with your loss and i didn't
want you anyway. i mean this being an adult site you would
think people would tend to be more mature. if i am polite
enough to tell you no thank you what's the point in emailing
me back in the first place? or if you know you aren't
what i'm looking for why keep emailing me asking ...
2 Commentaires, 90 Consultations,
10 Votes
,5.18 Score
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Unstable individuals 30/5/2007
i received this email and tons of harrassing pms from a guy
i told not interested to. it was a response to my email asking
him to stop bothering me. this email doesn't make any
sense to me because he fails to see that i am not interested
still. he has another name on here also that he is harrassing
me with.
Finally a civil and kind response, however I would have
to disagree with your ...
2 Commentaires, 105 Consultations,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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No fucking to untidy women 29/5/2007
I went along the beach on a sunny evening. The time was 7pm.
The people who came to the beach are little by little leaving
the shore. I live alone. Even I go to my boarding I have to
loiter. So I chose to wait some more time. I was sitting on
a stone and watchin the sea. After a few minutes, one woman
weighing(200kg)with un ugly face and ragged clothes came
closer to me and begged me to have a ...
4 Commentaires, 201 Consultations,
13 Votes
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