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New Swinger's Information on Parties 9/7/2005
Swingers parties are a great place to meet new couple, singles,
whatever u are into. People usually hang out, drink, dance,
etc...If u are new to the lifestyle and are attending ur
first party read any-and-all rules that apply to this setting,
there are usually a couple. One in particualr u want to find
though is the "NO MEANS NO" agreement. Which
states simply that no means no. If you say ...
1 Commentaires, 288 Consultations,
9 Votes
,3.85 Score
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How a photo album can make for a safe date 5/7/2005
I just happen to have a bunch of cops that are close friends.
One day I was out for coffee on a first date with a guy and we
were talking about our pets. I got out my little photo album
and flipped by about 6 photos of me and my friends in their
uniforms to get to my dog's photo. All the sudden the
guy had an appointment he forgot about and he got up and left
in a hurry. I never heard ...
1 Commentaires, 348 Consultations,
12 Votes
,5.63 Score
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HI 4/7/2005
Has anyone had a bad experiences on here....
3 Commentaires, 192 Consultations,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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meeting for the first time... 1/7/2005
Do you ladies like to meet at your place first, or someplace
in public and then decide?
2 Commentaires, 136 Consultations,
2 Votes
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Always keep your date that you agreed too 27/6/2005
One thing that I have noticed a lot is that many people who
one gets to talk too via email first never ever show up when
it is meeting time. One other thing that I have noticed is
that after both sides have talked and discussed a lot of
issues when you finally meet the OTHER party then decides
right there and then to tell you NO for some reason or another
when in the first place you ...
1 Commentaires, 271 Consultations,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Where to meet 26/6/2005
We have invited people to our home on occasion after several
long on-line and telephone conversations including web
camming.
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We would adivise meeting at a party or a pub/club, unless
you feel a connection right off.
1 Commentaires, 171 Consultations,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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fetishes 19/6/2005
i had a friend experiance a true dating nightmare , she was
talking to a man online for over a year and evintually decided
to meet him , so she went to dallas for the weekend. In talking
to this man for so long she knew that he had a fetish , his turn
-on was a womans neck :so in thinking that she liked her necked
nibbled on and caressed with lips she thought that this
encounter would be a ...
2 Commentaires, 303 Consultations,
14 Votes
,4.26 Score
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safe ? 14/6/2005
whgat is really safe?
safe sex? like the pill or condoms?
blah blah blah
1 Commentaires, 131 Consultations,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score
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Where do you think is safe to meet 2/6/2005
In a public place would be or should be a good safe place to
meet it should be mutual or both decide on a venue each for
2 different activities (meal, club, motel etc) this
way both people can feel safe as well as make the final dicussion
as to wheather you take the next step then either person
has the opportunity to pull out
0 Commentaires, 180 Consultations,
20 Votes
,2.87 Score
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Internet meetings 1/6/2005
I met a person on the internet who wants to have sex with me
and my GF. We have met people before, for whatever reasons
they backed out. I was wondering if there is a better way
to reel a person in off the net? We have met in bars and other
places, but I am not sure if they feel comfortable or if it
was just chemistry. We general talk on a IM, then a phone
call to confirm and chat. Any ...
0 Commentaires, 125 Consultations,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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Be Careful when ur out there !!! 20/5/2005
More than 1 out of every four women have been or sexually
abused....and most of the time the situations are preventable...juat
remember to take safety precautions when u are out in the
world looking for a good time ..... especially with the
recent increase in sexual crimes on women .....
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remember to...
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1. let close ppl friends/family to u know where u are going ...
0 Commentaires, 404 Consultations,
25 Votes
,3.46 Score
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location, location, location 14/5/2005
Remember, when you have a chance for a romantic evening.
The place is half the battle. The chances of continuing
to date, have a longterm relationship or even sex can depend
on where you go. If you go somewhere quiet and somber, she
may enjoy it or she may become tired and want to end the date
sooner. An active person will appreciate an active location,
clubs for an example can be good. ...
1 Commentaires, 2655 Consultations,
103 Votes
,3.51 Score
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Emotional Safety for Men 12/5/2005
I was recently in a long term relationship which took its
emotional toll on me. The one thing I learned from it, and
am now sharing with other men, is to be careful of anyone
who has "trust issues." I found that she became
overly attached after trust was established and she was
constantly seeking out reasons I might leave her (her paranoia
was one of the many reasons I eventually left). I ...
0 Commentaires, 507 Consultations,
17 Votes
,3.69 Score
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A cautious word. 11/5/2005
Todays society is finally begining to become more accept
of the induvidual rights to sexual freedom. While alot
of people still find the need to hide certain parts of there
lives through threat of ridicule (never fear ridicule
it is only a lack of understanding) or that they may be alienated
from those they know. Thus as a result people who are normal,
logical induviduals feel they must ...
6 Commentaires, 5133 Consultations,
250 Votes
,3.34 Score
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Credit cards on the first date 22/4/2005
This applies to both men and women, and especially on first
dates. Never leave your credit card on the table to pay the
bill, and go use the restroom.
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Yes they could steal it, but what is much worse, is when they
copy the number. You don't know it when they copy your
number. Imagine the damage they can do until your next billing
statement arrives.
0 Commentaires, 144 Consultations,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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Extreme but safe 19/4/2005
When meeting a first date that you have not shared a photo
with, try the following:
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Arrange the date at a location that is usually busy, and
which you are familiar with. Have your date describe themself
to you, what they are wearing, height, weight, hair color,
etc. Do this just prior to meeting. Tell your date to wait
30 minutes and then leave if you don't contact them. ...
1 Commentaires, 279 Consultations,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Telephoning someone you are meeting for the first time. 17/4/2005
Never use your home phone to call someone you are meeting
for the first time. Use your cell phone and push *67 before
dialing the number. *67 blocks your number from appearing
on caller ID. Try this first by calling a friend to make sure
this works with your cell phone service.
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If the person you are calling does not accept blocked numbers,
then use a pay phone or borrow a ...
0 Commentaires, 124 Consultations,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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Meeting for the first time. 17/4/2005
When meeting someone for the first time, I recommend arriving
by taxi at a public coffee house or bar that you pick, during
the day.
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By meeting in a coffee house or bar there will be other people
immediately around you. By picking the location to meet
reduces the likelyhood that he has a close friend working
at the location. Also most coffee houses or bars are smaller
then ...
0 Commentaires, 88 Consultations,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Posting old photos? 16/4/2005
Posting an old photo versus no photo is understandable,
but be upfront that the photo is old. passion members want to
see the current you, on your profile, not what you looked
like 5 years ago.
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Posting recent photos shows that you are honest and sincere
about meeting new friends. Posting recent photos will
help avoid uncomfortable conversations about what you
really look like. ...
0 Commentaires, 54 Consultations,
7 Votes
,4.57 Score
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Common Sense 12/4/2005
If you are meeting someone off here for the first time use
common sense. Meet during the day in a public place and dont
make plans that are going to take up most of the day in case
its ackward and you two dont get along. Plan on getting a
coffee or quick bite to eat unless you two are just planning
on jumping in the sack together and have seen each other
on webcams and talked many times ...
0 Commentaires, 177 Consultations,
22 Votes
,4.33 Score
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Residence 7/4/2005
This can be for ladies and gentlemen. If you have a date,
and they insist, (for some reason, ) to pick you up from
your house, trust me, it is a trap to see where you stay, and
stalk you, and/or do worse things. So, this is what I do,
I tell them okay, and guide them to at least 4 streets over.
So, that way, you know the area, but don't have to let
them know where you stay. Or, you ...
0 Commentaires, 200 Consultations,
15 Votes
,4.20 Score
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Knowing your date 5/4/2005
Knowing your date is very important, especially on blind
dates. Be very cautious with whom you date, especially
with strange men whom you met in an extraordinary situation.
Watch your date, see how he moves. Does he maintain physical
contact with you at all times? Does he avert his eyes when
you ask him a question? Does he give evasive responses or
ask very personal questions? Yes to any of ...
0 Commentaires, 89 Consultations,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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want to stay local 4/4/2005
i feel i should not have to keep my swinging ordeals private
from the town i live in. i would much rather meet local people
who share the same interests i do. i mean its not like we try
to meet at pta meetings or anything. i respect other people's
feelings that they dont want the attention. just, for me
personally, should i really care if someone in the supermarket
knows im a swinger?
0 Commentaires, 57 Consultations,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Meeting Someone For The First Time 28/3/2005
Hello Everyone,
I am new to this and haven't actually followed through
with physically meeting anyone yet. My question is, what
is the safest and most preferred way to go about personally
meeting someone. Where do most people like to meet their
"friends" for the first time? At the house,
the mall, the bar?
3 Commentaires, 460 Consultations,
24 Votes
,3.47 Score
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HOW IMPORTANT ARE LOOKS 27/3/2005
Don't get me wrong, looks do matter. A little. I've
been with hotties and not so hotties, but the sex is not always
the same. Some of my best sex has been with the no-so-hotties,
and my worst with the hotties. If the girl is good in bed,
looks don't matter as much. And sometimes the hotties
are stuck up or pruddish. This is not always the case but
just remember good looks doesn't always ...
4 Commentaires, 247 Consultations,
12 Votes
,4.74 Score
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Say no 27/3/2005
no is good learn to say it
1 Commentaires, 82 Consultations,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Should you ever.... 19/3/2005
We have been invited to a few peoples houses but I never want
to go unless I already have met the person because I am afraid
of what might happen if they turn out to be nuts. Should you
ever go to someones house from passion you have never met????????
3 Commentaires, 252 Consultations,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Rewards of Sex Watching 18/3/2005
This is a sequel to Caught Sex Watching 12-11-04.
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Klaus and my wife were clearly startled as they heard the
wardrobe door close. He withdrew his penis from deep inside
my wife's bottom, got up and opened the wardrobe door.
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They were aghast as they saw me there.
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How much have you seen she asked me?
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Everything I replied, still very ...
0 Commentaires, 548 Consultations,
13 Votes
,3.48 Score
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Come on ladies...get safe! 17/3/2005
Why are ladies meeting just any guy without running them
through the proper obstacle course? If the guy is aggressive
on the internet chances are he is ten times worse in person.
Always meet during the day first. I know how much everyone
likes to meet for a drink at night but in the dark is when most
crimes occur. Have a cell phone, meet in a public area, and
look for red flags before ...
3 Commentaires, 223 Consultations,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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Don't give out much Info 17/3/2005
I have found that generally on this site most men are liers
to some extent. I assume a lot of women do this also but why
lie about who you are of if you are married? You will be found
out and it just makes people mad for no reason. Also noticed
guys like to say sure lets meet in public then turn around
and say where do you live? DON'T TELL THEM!!!!! Most
men are just curious but some can be ...
1 Commentaires, 152 Consultations,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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